“How do you know the right person?” Nobody will tell you this is the right person and no one can tell you the qualities of someone who is right for you, but God himself will speak to your heart and you will know by yourself that “this is the person I have been longing for”. It’s all God’s work: he will carry all you desire in a spouse and above all, you will have similar common interests (i.e. your faith in the Lord and His Kingdom).
This is so TRUE! Thank you Louis for sharing your insights. Indeed God spoke to my heart as I've written in one of my posts somewhere. I was expecting some English words that will come to my head, but no... it was just a change of heart that happened. And now I feel that... "this is the person I'm longing for". BUT it pays to be more discerning and so I wait for some more directions from HIM. And I tell you... comparing it to the past when it was NOT from HIM, with this relationship that can only be from HIM, His response is always so immediate. God just makes things flow the right way and everything does fall right into place. Amazing! Amazing God indeed!
Glory to God sister Macky. I believe everyone is doing great. However sister, you still have to pray the prayer of God filtering those He willeth not out of your life. All these counts in one's success in marriage.
Blessings to you all in Jesus name. Amen.
Louis, what did you mean by-- "prayer of God filtering those He willeth not out of your life" ?
I'm sorry to impose on you to expound but I truly would like to succeed in what I have with this special guy I truly believe is from God.
Thank you! God's blessings in abundance to you! (",)
Here you go sister Mckay....
Please pray the above prayer with all your heart and believe He has heard you.
There is one thing I have leant; you cannot tell God to bless what He had not ordained. So rely on Him when you need a spouse and don’t choose on your own and tell Him to bless the relationship. This is one of the things that promote divorce in the world today. If the guy is His will, he will remain with you, if not, you will see him gradually depart from you. But sometimes, we tend to get hurt when God is filtering our lives. If you are not willing to loose some of your friends, this prayer is not for you, if you are willing to submit to His will irrespective of what/those you will lose, then the prayer is for you.
I believe this is all for now. And note that this is the first stage of a healthy relationship/marriage. There are other issues that build relationship/marriage.
God bless you.
Thank you Louis! You are wonderful to share all these to the singles here needing guidance in choosing a spouse. I will definitely pray this one.
I pray that you may be constantly open to God's grace and favors to continue what you're doing for His Greater Glory. We have an awesome God! Blessings to you brother! (",)
You are welcome sister Chilombo. Glory to God. You will know if that God given partner has come your way. Jesus said the Spirit of truth that He will send us will guide us into all truths. Sister, the Spirit of truth is in you as one who has a burning for God and one who is looking for His will and not your desire. The Spirit will definitely guide you into the truth. When the partner comes your way, you will know by the power of the Spirit that he is the one. Its as simple as that.
God bless you abundantly and may He grant your request for a chosen/destined partner for you in Jesus name. Amen.
Thank you very much for sharing beloved.
We all start skeptical until it hits us. Trust in the Lord. His GRACE is INFINITE!