letting go the past

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Comment by Neil Harold Rex-Marillier on October 19, 2011 at 6:02am

Thankyou I fully understand, thanks for your concern much appreciated.Enjoy the rest of your day.

Comment by SHYLEEJAN on October 19, 2011 at 5:48am

GOOD MORNING NEIL,

I JUST READ YOUR STORY AND MY HEART GOES OUT TO ALL WHO IS IN THESE POSITION. WHAT I WOULD LOVE EVERYONE TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT THE devil HATES FAMILY AND I NEED TO KNOW THAT ONCE WE ARE A CHRISTIAN  THE devil IS GOING TO USE OUR LOVES ONE AND OUR FRIENDS TO GET AT US. WHEN EVER THEY START TO GET AT US WE NEED TO REMEMBER WHAT (EPHESIANS 6-12 AMP) SAY, ( FOR WE ARE NOT WRESTLING WITH FLESH AND BLOOD [CONTENDING ONLY WITH PHYSICAL OPPONENTS].BUT AGAINST THE DESPOTISMS,AGAINST THE POWER,AGAINST[ THE MASTER SPIRITS WHO ARE] THE WORLD RULERS OF THIS PRESENT DARKNESS. AGAINST THE SPIRIT FORCES OF WICKEDNESS IN THE HEAVENLY [SUPERNATURAL] SPHERE.

PRQVERBS 17-9-13-19 AMP) HE WHO COVERS AND FORGIVEAN OFFENSE SEEKS LOVE.

BUT HE WHO REPEATS OR HARPS ON A MATTER SEPARATES EVEN CLOSE FRIENDS.

(13) WHOEVER REWARDS EVIL FOR GOOD, EVIL SHALL NOT DEPART FROM HIS HOUSE.

(19) HE WHO LOVE STRIFE AND IS QUAARRELSOME LOVES TRANSGRESSION AND INVOLVES HIMSELF IN GUILT; HE WHO RAISES HIGH HIS GATEWAY AND IS BOASTFUL AND ARROGANT INVITES DESTRUCTION.

PLEASE CHEW ON THE SCRIPTURE AND BELIEVE ME YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THINGS BETTER.

Comment by Neil Harold Rex-Marillier on October 19, 2011 at 12:15am

I have been following this discussion with close interest as Im experiencing much disappointment presently in my life,much the same as you.After 25 years of marriage my wife tells me that she does not love me anymore and wants to move on.Well im not going to explain my reaction, as it was not one to be proud of,however after doing some good soul searching I realized she might be right.I pray for help and guidance everyday of my life and praise the Lord for all the good things He does,then to be faced with this,it was not nice.I turned my attention to what I have left, rather than what I had lost,and do this everyday, and everyday that goes by God gives me the strenght to face what I have to.I must add here that I love my wife even after some very nasty things that were said and done.She has even gone as far as developing a relationship with somebody she has not met and threw that at me as well.Im contiually reminded by her of the love she has for this man, and what a wonderful person he is,well Im not going to say anymore on that as the situation is silly.The reason I still have to face her every night is because of our son who is in grade 11.In conclusion I just want to say that we must place our Faith and Trust in God its the only way to get through these disappointments we have to face in life.Beleive me its the only way,and at times we feel he has left us ,fear not He is there,beleive in Him and He will see the situation through with us even when the going gets tough, He is there.I have always said being a Christian when things are going  your way is a lot easier than when  our whole world is falling appart.Its been sadly wonderful to be able to share this with you as nobody out there is really interested in anothers problems.I hope you all have a wonderful day,being reminded of the constant care that God takes of us that we so often take for granted.

God Bless all of you

Neil Rex-Marillier         

Comment by Mark Royce on October 18, 2011 at 11:18pm

Thank you all for the comforting words and kindness!  I am moving on and walking strong in my faith with the Lord!  I am staying busy.... and avoiding contact with my ex.  I have a lot to be thankful for... my children, my family, my friends - old and new on here!  And most of all thankful for having God watching over me!  

God Bless all of you.

Sincerely,

Mark Royce

Comment by Texanbrit on October 18, 2011 at 8:07pm

Mark, you are NO fool!!! I am truly very sorry for what you have gone through, I cannot imagine the pain you must feel. I pray that God will heal your heart and bring you the comfort that you need!! Please do not consider for a moment that you are a fool, that is a lie from the enemy and the enemy wants you to feel that way, but GOd does not!! He made you in His likeness and image, God is no fool and neither are you!!:) be encouraged that God does know your need, He has a plan and a purpose for your life!! Jeremiah 29:11 "for I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you amd not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future".

Comment by MYu on September 26, 2011 at 5:58pm

Philip, I don't think I fully understand what you're going through but if being honest is the struggle that you have in your life right now...all I can say is allow God's Word and the Holy Spirit to guide you in your every step. Open up yourself to His grace that you may be strong to resist what is not from the LORD. Little steps... read HIS Word as often if not  daily, with and open mind and an open heart,...then everything else will start to follow.  God bless you.

Comment by MYu on September 26, 2011 at 5:52pm

"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.
 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."

(Isaiah 55:8-9)

 

Mark, I've been through the same heartbreak that left me dead inside for some time. I cannot imagine to tell you the confusion I was experiencing in my head back then, because despite my diligence in prayer for God to protect what I had then with this man... I still lost it. This man chose to go with another woman and left me feeling rejected after devoting 12 years of my life to him. BUT God promises deliverance that is complete and forever. You may not understand HIS reason/s for allowing the pain in your life at the moment, for HIS ways are higher than ours...but HE said if you draw near to HIM, HE will allow you to understand HIS thoughts and HIS will. It is in knowing HIM and getting close to HIM that this will happen. And since it happened to me, I can tell you... HE will pull you out of the mess you are in... live your life to delight in the LORD and that joy and peace HE promises is yours. I've been set free of all the confusion and turmoil in my life and bask in the truth that God's Word offers. I now operate in a disposition of surrendering my will to HIS WILL. And I think that is where my peace is coming from. I know you'll be better in God's time. HE keeps all HIS children in the grip of HIS hand. Hang in there!

 

Comment by SaraChoo on September 26, 2011 at 8:54am

letting go the past means you are longing to move forward! No matter how hard it is right now,  you still have a choice that is to move on.  I know it's not an easy job, it will take long to get through,  your life has to be continued with faith in Him because He is the only source and reason that you choose not to stay where you are now.  Be honesty with Him,  confess to Him and He will comfort you,  support you,  which will surely last forever!  I'm not good at citing the examples in Bible,  I just know that,  if I do as what He told me to do and be a Christ like person, then He will be glad for that.  Hope my words are coming from Him, His inspiration!Forget the past,  getting lessons from them,  and letting them go then you will be a better you!  Love in Christ, my dear sisters and brothers!  Amen!

Comment by a servant (Chris) on September 22, 2011 at 8:37am

Mark

So many of us know parts, of what you are going through.  We will continue to lift you up. 

Jonah 2:7 "As my life was slipping away, I remembered the LORD. My prayer came to you in
your holy temple.    Ps 18:6 I called on the LORD in my distress. I cried to my God for help. He heard my voice from his temple, and my cry for help reached his ears.  I believe you are strong and know these already.  Yet, Just wanted you to know that we are One in His Body

Comment by akua akuamoah-boateng on September 22, 2011 at 5:02am

Mark, you are not and will never be a "fool". You showed love but didn't get it back. No big deal. I share so much in your pain. I have been there too. All is not lost. Remember that for every person, there will be a problem and for every problem, our God has the right solution. Take every hurt/pain you're going through to God and trust Him for healing. He did it for me and he'll not deny you.

God bless you for sharing.

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