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My Name is Pride. I am a cheater.
I cheat you of your God-given destiny...because
you demand your own way.
I cheat you of contentment...because you "deserve better than this."
I cheat you of knowledge...because you already know it all.
I cheat you of healing...because you're too full of me to forgive.
I cheat you of holiness...because you refuse to admit when you're wrong.
I cheat you of vision...because
you'd rather look in a mirror than out a window.
I cheat you of genuine friendship...because
nobody's going to know the real you.
I cheat you of love...because real romance demands sacrifice.
I cheat you of greatness in heaven...because
you refuse to wash another's feet on earth.
I cheat you of God's glory...because I convince you to seek your own.
My name is Pride. I am a cheater.
You like me because you think I'm always looking our for you. Untrue.
I'm looking to make a fool of you.
God has so much for you, I admit, but don't worry....
If you'll stick with me
You'll never know.

Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.
Proverbs 16:18


This is part of a bible study I am doing. I wanted to share it with you all.
Many blessings...Your sister in Christ...carla

ps--If you want..just answer these personallly for yourself, and then comment on what you thought of it. OR--post your answers here,


1. Share if you would like the most embarrassing moment or funniest thing that ever happened to you (with discretion)

2. Take the Pride Test.

Self Centered
vs.
God Centered.

"I want it my way"
(vs)
Your will be done.

Is easily swayed by others opinions
(vs)
Focuses on Pleasing God

Is Rigid and Opinionated
(vs)
Is flexible and open to other people's ideas

Gets Huffy and defensive if criticised
(vs)
Doesn't take critcism personally;
listen's and responds if appropriate

Hungers to be admired and Praised
(vs)
May enjoy Praise but doesn't need
it; can work behind scenes, lets others
have limelight.

Makes sure others notice good works demands credit
(vs)
Performs good deeds without advertising them

Has Power issues; uses other people
(vs)
Is always concerned about the common good

Indulges self; makes personal comfort a priority
(vs)
Willing to sacrifice personal comfort


Feels little need of God and is Proud of self Sufficiency
(vs)
Looks daily to God for help


Practices entitlement thinking: "I deserve this--I'm worth it"
(vs)
Practises Gratitude Thinking:"I don't deserve this-but I'm Thankful

Easily Offended, nurtures resentment
(vs)
Forgives Quickly and completely, Gives ongoing hurts to God.

Inflexible, finds it hard to spring back from disappoints
(vs)
Resilient; able to rise above disappointments and
use them creatively.

Responds to problems with self-pity
(vs)
Responds to problems with healthy perspective.

Tends to excuse her own sin while condeming the sins of others
(vs)
Acknowledges ones own sinful tendencies, and those of others,
but accepts and extends God's grace to herself and others.

Obsesses about own obvious failures
(vs)
Accepts God's forgiveness and moves on.


Resents responsibilites and the lack of peace that often accompanies them
(vs)
Know's life struggles will not disturb inner peace

Loves People who love them
(vs)
Feels God's heart toward all humanity; is able to love the unlovable.


3. Look up the word HUMBLE in a concordance. Find two verses that speak to you and write them out.

4. Read Micah 6:8

Using the following Prompts, write a prayer describing how you want, with the Lord's help---to display the qualities this verse recommends.

Lord, I want to act Justly by ___________________________
I want to show I love Mercy by _________________________
I want to walk humbly by ______________________________


On Humility--Andrew Murray Writes this:

Humility is perfect quietness of heart. It is to expect nothing, to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me, and when I am blamed or despised. It is to have a blessed home in the Lord, where I can go in and shut the door, and kneel to my Father in secret, and am at peace as in a deep sea of calmness, when all around and above is trouble.

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Hi Jack....tell me about it...do you have any shin guards with those steel toed boots. IT does hurt...but hurts good!

You are a beloved brother....In Him~carla
Carla, this is an amazing post. My answers are as follows.....

1: MY MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT.....
Ive actually had quite a few of these,believe it or not....
One morning, about 13 years ago, or so, I slept in for work. I was always sleeping in for work and was on a sticky wicket with the boss. I knew I had to get there fast, with only ten minutes to spare until clocking in time, I jumped out of bed grabbed my jeans from the day before a clean t-shirt and ran as fast as I could out of the house. Luckily, work wasnt too far away, it was within walking distance from home, so my efforts of a mad dash were well rewarded when I arrived at the factory gates just as the buzzer went off. I ran into the factory about one minute behind my workmates, as they all gathered at the registration point, with me eagerly racing to catch up, I could hear the clip clop of my bosses high heals behind me, I also heard that voice I dreaded 'KAY' she shouted. I pretended not to hear her and caught up to the registration point, my boss kept hollering my name, all of us girls were whispering between each other 'she's got it in for you', 'your gonna get it', 'late again'. As she approached, we all stood at attention, giving her all of our focus. She stopped in front of us and proceded to tell me that it was in my best interest that when she called me, I was to stop and listen to her ( I had the oh yeah, whatever attitude back then) and was very cocky, I was answering her back 'I made it on time, whats your problem?', I wish I hadn't asked......She raised her arm from her side and dangling from her ball point pen was my underwear from the day before.....these fell out of the bottom of your jeans as you were rushing up the corridor, trying to avoid me, she said.....I thought you might want them back.....the whole place was in an uproar as I sheepishly removed my underwear and placed them in the nearest bin.........The experience actually had a really positive effect on our team, it broke the ice with our boss and let us see she wasn't really made of stone and we had quite a good relationship after that day......It never taught me how important it was to be punctual though.....

2: This is the one ive been dreading answering....

I want it my way
I am easily swayed by others
I am a little rigid and opinionated
I am not too huffy but I do get defensive
Oh man, need I go on, I am partly each answer but I am afraid to say, I sway towards pride. I am only glad that I have a God who loves me, a God who knows that I try to live within His ways and a God that accepts my repentance and forgives me......

3:
Lord, I want to act justly by demonstrating justice in all situations, no matter how difficult it is to accept, I may be wrong
I want to show I love mercy by forgiving others, the way you have forgiven me
I want to walk humbly as you teach, guide, comfort and correct me, learning more about you and myself.

Thanks for the 'wake up call'
love in Christ
Moomins
xxx
Hi Kay...I love you.....your sister..Carla
Moomins

haahahahahaha Ohhhh man, that was too funny hahaahaha
David, I forgot I even posted this....thanks for reminding me....I began my day with a smile, and a little reminder of just exaxtly what comes before a fall....love in Him....Moo...x
One of my most embarrassing moments...(I too have had several)

WHen I was 18 I became a waitress. It was a quiet restaurant during the day, and a bar at night. I worked the dinner rush at that time. I was stocking up the drinking glasses...lazy man's load...with two large rectangular trays stacked on top of eachother (begging for trouble)..but in my mind, I could do it! So I proceeded to walk through the full dining area (dinner rush) with these glasses in hand. Well....one by one they fell to the floor. I couldn't do a thing to stop them because my hands were too full holding them

......PING.... CRASH.... SMASH....

I think it was 48 glasses I broke in the minute or two that I stood there helplessly while EVERYONE watched! ...Then came the clean-up!

ok here it is...---brought into the light!

"I want it my way"
Gets Huffy and defensive if criticised
Inflexible, finds it hard to spring back from disappoints
Resents responsibilites and the lack of peace that often accompanies them
Tends to excuse her own sin while condeming the sins of others

Heavenly Father,
Thank you for loving me, and even though I don't deserve it, you have taken me and shown me unimaginable Love and forgiveness. Please help me to show that to others. Thank you dear Father....In Jesus Prescious name..Amen

James 4:6-7
But He gives us even more grace to stand against such evil desires. As the scriptures say
"God opposes the proud but favors the humble."
So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

James 4:10
Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up in honor.

Lord, I want to act Justly by not judging others, and handing each situation over to You.
I want to show I love Mercy by feeding the hungry and comforting the poor in Spirit.
I want to walk humbly by trusting You completely and living at your feet.


Whew! Amen!
WOW! I really wanted to write something brilliant, especially since it is my daughter who posted this Blog! How's that for pride?

What stood out the most for me is that I am fairly rigid and opinionated, but am learning to become more flexible and open to the ideas others have to share.

Yes, sometimes (when I'm not playing the martyr), I still advertise my good deeds, and I like it when others notice and comment. OUCH!!!

I try to be comfortable in whatever situation I find myself, but it doesn't always work.

I am extremely thankful for everything the Lord has put in my path. God knows best! I exalt HIM!!!

I love people who love me, and am asking God to transform me so that it is HIS Love that flows through me to all people, not only those who love me.

How far I have come...and how far I still have to go!!!...

I want to walk Justly by doing what is right, and being fair in my dealings with people.
I want to show I love Mercy by loving the unlovely and those who wrong me.
I want to walk humbly by surrendering and replacing my will for HIS Will.

Love you dear daughter of mine, Mom

PS – I’ll spare you from My Most Embarrassing Moment!
Thankyou Carla, when i read your articles ,So many Bible verses came in my mind. I want to write some of them:-
1. .....and the pride of life , is not of the Father , but it is of the world. 1John 2:16
2........God resisteth the proud , but giveth grace unto the humble. James 4:6
3 For i say , through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think.......Romans 12:3
4. When pride cometh , then cometh shame: but with lowly is wisdom. Prov. 11:2
5. Every one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord: though hand join in hand , he shall not be unpunished. prov. 16: 5
6. An high look , and a proud heart, and the plowing of the wicked , is sin. Prov. 21: 4
7. Likewise ye younger submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea,all of you be subject one to
another, and be clothed with humility:for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. 1Peter 5:5, 6
Dear Carla; this is perfect timing for me. I just happened to stop at the Christian Book store on my way home from work; looking for a Bible study that would help me deal with this girl at work who won't let up on me. I have not said anything to her yet. But I have to tell you I was getting really close to it today. She wrote up the unit; bypassing management. Taking it to administration, I am the one in trouble for it because I was in charge. She really wants to make me look bad. And I really wanted to put her back in her place. So thank you for this is something I really, really needed. Thank you, thank you. Your friend in Christ. I will work through this intentlly. Blessings.
Here's my prayer to the Lord;

Dear Lord, Take me I'm Yours! Break me...whatever it takes, so that I can be used by You. I know that You will be there to pick up the pieces. I trust in You. Right now it hurts, but i trust You! Lead me on the path to everlasting life! Amen!

This kind of praying leads to personal revival!!!!!!!!!!!
Carla, Good post. Read it to my mother tonight and it was a focus of disscussion for quite some time. The Proverbs always show me the dangers of pride. God Bless.

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