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Me And My Partner Are Not Married And Do Not Have Sex With Eachother But Is It Still A Sin To Have Oral Sex??
I GREET YOU ALL IN JESUS NAME !!
I need advice my brothers and sisters.
I need advice my brothers and sisters.
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Permalink Reply by Warren Fox on
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Thank you very much moomins
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Permalink Reply by stephanie M. Alexander on
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SUCH A POWERFUL QUESTION, I SEE YOU DIDNT GET MANY RESPONSES BECAUSE ITS A QUESTIION THAT LEAVES FOLKS EMBARASSED AND UNCOMFORTABLE, BUT AS I STRUGGLE WITH MY FLESH IM LEARNING THAT SPEAKING ABOUT THE ISSUE REALLLY HELPS, AND LEARNING ABOUT WHAT GOD HAS TO SAY HELPS ME EVEN MORE....ORAL SEX IS A SIN, I DONT THINK THE BIBLE SAYS IT THAT WAY, BUT OUR BODIES ARE TEMPLE'S AND TO PRESERVED FOR OUR HUSBANDS AND WIVES, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL THING TO WAIT AND EXPERIENCE THE LOVE AND SEX THAT GOD CREATED TO BE GOOD AND FRUITFUL...IM PREGNANT AND NOT MARRIED... JUST TO LET YOU KNOW IT DIDNT START WITH FULL PENETRATION... WE ARE ADULTS, A KISS, A HUG, ORAL SEX, AND YOU KNOW THE REST... I WILL NEVER RESENT MY SON NEVER....BUT I TRULYY KNOW WHY GOD CREATED A CONVENANT RELATIONSHIP CALLED MARRIAGE...MY DEAR ONCE THE FLESH GETS OUT OF CONTROL YOU COULD LOSE THAT RELATIOSHIP...
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Permalink Reply by Ms. Butterfly on
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sex is sex anyway you look at it, and yes it is a sin. once you are married enjoy, but this is just me god created our mouth for food and drink love you:)
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Permalink Reply by Michael Vernon McEntire on
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I think it's very important that we not try to be legalistic about sex because that leads to our looking for loop-holes in what we consider to be God's Law, rather than considering the deeper reason for His wanting us to practice moral purity. He created us for His Eternal Love. Please consider each of those words: HIS. ETERNAL. LOVE. We have to be instruments of His Love (rather than simply instruments of gratification) to each other in this world in our man-made bodies until we arrive at the Fullness of His Presence in our Resurrected bodies. Any action that does not channel His Love, any action that does not represent and convey His Eternal Love, any action that leves us even temporarily numb to His Love, is a disordered action that cannot satisfy, and can only lead eventually to the frustration of our God-made, undeniable hunger and thirst for the God Kind of Love. We don't need worry so much about "sin". Rather, we need to be concerned about the health of our souls.
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Permalink Reply by David Velasquez on
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Yes it is sin, for it falls into sexual immorality.
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Permalink Reply by Theresa on
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Warren, sex of any kind outside of the covenant of a godly marriage is a horrible sin, it will have such a bad effect on you personally and on the many generation after you, only God by His grace alone will be able to deliver you completely from the effects of this particular sin. I say, stop it now, do not continue, wait till you get married, you will both be glad you waited.
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Permalink Reply by God's Rocker on
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First of all ,I think it took great courage to boldly address the matter you put forth here. I have to go with what david said , it falls under sexual immorality only because you're not married but also, God knows the heart and knows you love your significant other. This is a very delicate subject and I hope some of these replies here give you some peace of mind and a deeper understanding ..
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Permalink Reply by jose marcos on
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bueno varon lo que puedo decirte esque asi estando casado el sexo aral esta mal cuando estamos en cristo jesus somos nuevas criaturas nacemos denuevo todo lo pasado queda atras todo lo que asiamos antes ya no podemos aserlo cuando nacemos denuevo pero yo se que somos de carne y hueso que no somos dioses pero por eso dice que los balientes solo heredaran el reyno de los cielos ban a venir tentaciones del diablo pero ay que darle la espalda y ustedes saben y sean consientes que esta mal y que esta bien cual es negro y cual es blaco no hay internedio ES SI O NO BENDICIONES
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Jose -I took the liberty to translate for you bro ( Jose -he tomado la libertad the traducir lo que opinastes arriva mi hermano)
Well man, What i can tell you is that oral sex is even wrong when you are married. We are new creations in Christ, old things have pass away and we no longer should do what we used to. But i know we are still not gods and remain in this flesh and blood. The word says that valient men inherit the kingdom of God.
We will always be tempted by Satan and we must turn our backs to it. We must determine by the Spirit what is good and what is wrong. What is black and what is white, there is no middle ground.
Its Yes or No. Blessings
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hahahaha You want to get me in trouble huh?
In practices where scripture is silent such as masturbation and oral sex, it is extremely important that we take the full consul of God's word in reference to God's revealed character to come to sound conclusions. We should make it a habit to look at everything scripture has to say about a certain topic before determining the accurate teaching. As always being enlighten by the Spirit of truth. We need to keep in mind as well that the term “sexual immorality” covers an aray of sexual sins that may not be specifically and/or independently address in scripture.
If a woman was raised to believe that wearing makeup is a sin and she wears make up while away from home or what have you and she comes to me and tells me that she feels horrible because wearing makeup is a sin to her, I would not tell her that she has not sinned and she has nothing to worry about. You see her family and her church taught her that that was sin, so her moral structure was conditioned to believe it to be sin. So she sinned against her conscience and committed sin. So I would tell her to Repent. I would asked some sisters to help the young and weak sister in the faith (in such a topic) to see that wearing makeup is not a sin, but it was sin to her because whatever is sin to us and we go ahead and do then we sin (Romans 14).
I used that example to say that if a woman/man believes oral sex is sin then the partner that believes it to be fine should not ask the spouse to go against their moral structure, their conscience. That would be to violate the freedom each one of us have in Christ.
I personally do not believe it to be sin in a marriage convenent, but definitely believe it to be sin outside of marriage. When we abide in Christ His Spirit will convict us of sin. You can be sure of that and if God's Spirit tells you is sin then obey the leading of the Spirit. If you can take part in such practice without conviction of the Spirit while having a good personal relationship with the Lord, than what happens behind the bedroom door is between two married adults and God.
There are practices that go completely against God's designed and cause physical problems and can damage those involved and those are obviously not to be practiced.
The Spirit of God leads us to all truth so let Him be the Guide. Scripturally I cannot say is sin other than violating someone's conscience if the spouse is not ok with it.
Masturbation is easier to define as sin becasue as bro Alan posted on a previous discussion:
—"Masturbation is the deliberate stimulation of the sexual organs in order to derive sexual pleasure" . The Church teaches that sex has two main purposes that must be sought in the marriage act: sex is for reproduction of children within a valid marriage, and it is a loving, unifying act between husband and wife. Masturbation violates both aspects of the natural law and is thus a grave sin.
INeither Alan or I are catholic but we agree with this statement from the catholic teachings.
I am not trying to start a discussion on the subject of masturbation here, but simply saying that oral sex does not violate such clear purposes of any scripture i can think of. If anybody cares to check out the discussion we had on masturbation you can find it here:
http://www.allaboutgod.net/group/theologygroup/forum
I know the mouth was made for other things again let the Spirit lead.
Hope that helps.
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