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I am facing a very large storm in my life, my marriage and my sanity is under attack. I have been going through this for a few months now and today I just felt as if the fight went out in me. I know that is a lie from the devil, but today has been hard, I will say this my husband's mind is under attack and I have been praying for him and its just getting worse. I know that its the enemy because as believers when we first were married we did it under what seemed some insurmountable odds, but by the grace of God we made it and now the enemy is using my very spouse to bring dissension to our marriage.

I am hurting and tired and I miss our connection and he has tried to completely sever it, I trust and believe in my heart that the Lord brought us together and that my Father said that my husband is the one for me. I have been praying family and friends have been praying and he seems to be fighting us all. So I am asking other believers to pray the Lord's will be done and that my husband stop running from His Savior and Deliver and come back to his arms, My husband is now living for himself and I know that I can not go against his free will and God wont do that either but please pray his heart is softened and that my husband will hear the Lord's call and return to Him I do believe it is God's will that He returns to our marriage, but I know I must be patient and allow God to be God and do this is His time and that I have to allow the Lord's peace, grace and mercy to reign over me so that I do not become emotional and lose my way again and feel as low as i have felt today. God is my Rock and God is my Salvation. He is my Shepard and I shall not want! I need other believers to please pray my strength in the Lord. Thank you so very much. May God Bless and keep you all always and may His good and perfect will be done in your lives....

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PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND !!!

Thank You Elaine... God Bless You!

I TOOK YOUR NEED ALSO IN THE PRAYER ROOM , LORD LET THY WILL BE

AS YOU KNOW EACH HEART AND NEED , WALK THROUGH DAWN's HUSBAND

CLEANSE HIM , TOUCH EACHOF THEM AND SOFTEN THE HEART OF DAWNS

HUSBAND . GIVE DAWN STRGENTH , I BLESS THIS NEED ASKING THAT BY

YOUR HOLY SPIRIT THIS MARRAGECAN BE SAVED , FOR NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE

FOR YOU JESUS INYOU MIGHTY NAME THANK YOU FOR ANSWERED PRAYERS , AMEN
I'm so sorry to hear this. :-( For a moment I thought you were my coworker. She came in crying this morning cause her husband of 25 years has decided to file divorce because he's not in love anymore. The kids, 17 and 20 are angry with him. His 17 yo son preaches. They all just moved to a new church. They have a large farm too much for one person to take care of. Mom and the kids are praying constantly. We stood in prayer at work today as all three in our office are Christian. His daughter and he had an argument at home and he called his wife right after we finished praying. Now he's rethinking it. He's allowed satan to plant an idea that God has different plans for him even though he knows what scripture says. We think it's a mid life crisis. But it's not over. Prayers are working. And God sends convictions. Last week their Sunday school lesson was on not quitting. He was being convicted then.

Praying for you and my coworker. God's still in charge and He's on the job. Praying what we all prayed at work today. That your husband toss and turn with conviction and get no sleep until he makes the right decision.

Praying Dawn

MY SIS DAWN,I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR HUBBY.MAY GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.

LYNN(GEORGIA PEACH)

Thank you all so very much for your prayers I am in tears now, because I was going to give up the fight I was going to give him what he wanted. But I am more determined now than ever that Satan will not win! He will not take my husband from me and he will not take my marriage I believe that our Marriage belongs to the Lord just as we belong to Him and that no matter what he says from this day forward that I will rest in the truth that what God has brought together no man can come between, and that I will pray for my husband and intercede for him and stand in the gap for him and believe that the Lord is speaking to his heart now and reaching him in a supernatural way, I have to just trust in the Lord with all my heart and lean not on my own understanding, I see with my natural eyes my husband saying the things he says and telling me he is going to leave and be on his own because our marriage is not what he thought it was going to be, but I trust and know that God is God and He ordained marriage, and my husband is one of His children and whatever he is going through that God will bring him through it and the Lord will restore us, and use this time as a testimony to other people who will one day come to this point. I just know I need to reach out to other believers and pray when I am attacked because if I am not praying and standing in the gap for my husband the devil will win and he is defeated in the Mighty Name of Jesus... I just need to stay in His perfect Peace... Just keep us lifted up please.. Thank you all so much again for Your prayers and comments.. You are all in my prayers!! Thank you so much you just don't know what your prayers have done from me.... :)

Don't you dare. I've already rehearsed this today so I'm prepared. Make him see what being alone is like. He can cook, clean, pay his own bills. Don't sign anything but make him be put out if he wants this badly. Anyone at church who would speak to him?

We don't have a church home, we were looking before all of this happened. But we have people who we know that are in the church and I have spoken to them about my husband and he is not really talking to them he is shunning people he is going through a lot and I love him with all my heart he is suffering from his past and a lot of things that I know God is working him through he has let the cares of the world just rob him of his peace. Its sad really because my husband used to smile alot and now all he does is frown. He needs to be lifted up its not something as simple as he wants to leave he believes he is not good enough for me and that I could be better without him but those are lies from the devil and my husband is under attack... as i said we were married against all odds I know our marriage is a ministry and the devil will try and take out any ministry especially if he even thinks it can reach unreachable souls... and I believe that we will reach people like this that maybe why we are going through this because with out test and trial by fire do we ever really trust the Lord? And when people have seen you at a point that only God can get you through its a stronger message and testimony to unbelievers.

A lot of people keep falling back to thinking about the past, which leads to guilt and unmet expectations, which leads to feelings of inadequacy.  That's when they start questioning...when they start talking like Gideon instead of what the angel of the Lord was telling Gideon.  But by falling into this guilt, he's making a bad choice that will only cause him even more guilt down the road.  It's going to be a very heavy cross to bear if he keeps adding to the weight of it.  I have an ex-fiance who did the same.  He was so riddled with guilt and he broke up with me because, as he told his ex mother-n-law...she deserves better.  He ended up back into alcohol, smoking and partying.  Over three years later, and remarried again...he's trying to walk with God again, but that guilt is still there.  Until he can release that, he'll be forever backsliding.  When I met him he had a smile and was so joyful, then the guilt of the past began to gnaw at him and it's taken away three more years of his life.  At the point we met, he'd been saved for 12 years and had backslid half a dozen times over those 12 years.  Twelve stagnate years he cannot get back.  Your husband will put himself through the same if he continues on this course.  I don't know if that will make a difference to him to share this with him or not.  But if the guilt of the past bothers him now, what will the added guilt of ending his marriage do later?  God doesn't heap burdens on us, we heap them on ourselves. 

Dawn, I've been looking up some Scriptures to try to help you during this time.

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10

Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

Jesus looked at them and said, ‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 

There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD. Proverbs 21:30 I liked this one because we know that this plan of your husband isn't the plan of the Lord. Lean on this one dear sister. 

No weapon that is formed against you will prosper; And every tongue that accuses you in judgment you will condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, And their vindication is from Me,’ declares the LORD. Isaiah 54:17

The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD; He directs it like a watercourse wherever He pleases. Proverbs 21:1 This one shows the Lord is the Master of all.

In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.Proverbs 16:9 This is a big Hallelujah!!!!

A man’s steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way? Proverbs 20:24

13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of His good pleasurePhilippians 2:13 Not of man's good pleasure but God's. Amen

You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in Your word.Psalm 119:114 Thank you Lord

Now faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1 

But My righteous one will live by faith. And if he shrinks back, I will not be pleased with him.’ Hebrews 10:38

And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him. Hebrews 11:6

‘And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.’Matthew 21:22

For we walk by faith, not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7 (NKJV)

And this is my favorite. John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in Me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I HAVE OVERCOME THE WORLD.

Tammy, I appreciate you and as my sister in Christ I love you and thank you from the bottom of my heart! You have given me scriptures that I can speak out daily so when the devil tries to bring any thoughts to my mind or better yet brings my husband around to say things against or marriage I will have those scriptures in my heart and I can stand on the Word and it will keep me. I know that he keeps coming around right when I am in a place of peace and I'm trusting the Lord the devil speaks through my husband to bring me doubt and disbelief. But I am getting help and getting understanding and growing in the things of the Lord! Thank you for letting the Lord use you!!  :)

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