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My husband told me he wanted a divorce and he found someone else a month and a half ago. We have have been married 4 1/2 years. I truly love him and want my marraige to work out. He has filed for a divorce that his girlfriend paid for. He refuses to see our kids away fromher and he barely calls them anymore. I left last October and then in February he had a bad car accident,he could have died but his sister and I made sure that he got medical treatment that he was refusing. After his accident he was my husband again and I feel in love with him all over again. He then got fired from his job and things changed alot. He became worried and aggitated,stressed about money. I left again but was still seeing him and taking him to work and spending time with him on the weekends with the kids,spending time as a family. I can honestly say that I did not have my complete heart in my marriage because I was affraid that things wouldn't change. I have seen my mistakes and asked for forgivenss. I truely believe that God has forgiven me. He has filed for a divorce and the day i had to make an appointment with an attorney I was crushed,I spent my lunch time crying and praying that God would change his heart and to forgive me for my sins in my marriage. I recieved an answer to these prayers when I got back to work and have recieved answers since. I do not believe that it is God's will for us to be divorced. I had to file a response to his filing which was based on lies,he stated in the papers that we have been seperated since October 2008,which we were for 4 months but we then got back together and even lived together for a time,he then said that we did not have any assets to divide which we do. I could not and can not bring myself to file for divorce,the attorney told me that he does not have grounds for a divorce,I do. I have spoken with him off and on,but he has admitted to me that him being and living with this girl is wrong and that we both made mistakes and he made mistakes also. We both have made mistakes and I have apologized for my mistakes. In the past 2 weeks he has accused me of having a boyfriend and I don't. i have had mutual friends tell me that he does not love her that it is about money,his sister even told me this. My friend just told me today that if he didn't love me that he wouldn't care if I had a boyfriend,the fact that he is asking and accusing me of it says that he does still love and care about me.I have told him that there is nothing that he can do that will make me not love him. I pray everyday for God to turn his heart and put it on his heart to dissolve this divorce.I love my husband and i feel as if we both took on another for granted and I know that it is not God will for divorce. I am at peace with knowing this and that I trust GOd to turn this around and restore my marriage. I do wonder sometimes if I am in denial an not facing reality. I have had people tell me I am crazy that I will have to face reality sooner or later and go on with my life,however I don't feel that is the right thing to do,to just give up. What should I do go on with life and give up?

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I am going through a rough time too. Do not give up ask God for perseverance and patience. Read in the Bible about the problems you are having. Thre are plenty of answers. Also RELY and PRAY to God all the time. He will anser your prayers in his time. It is going to take a while to work through this. BELIEVE ME. He will give you more than you ask for. Your brohter in Christ Mark
Dear Sister in Christ,

Indecision is a decision, for now. Take your time to pray until you hear clearly from the Lord what to do. He will speak to you as you seek him. Sometimes we need to wait upon the Lord. But fear not, for God is with you and will guide you with His wisdom. You will know when that time come because you will feel a release in you Spirit and a sense of His peace, to go forward as God has instructed you. Until that time, my Sister, I encourage you to resist the urge to make quick legal decisions.

In His Love,

Judy Gibson
am waiting on the lord to move my husband lefted me a year ago this oct.god is good take time and talk to him and cleanse your self of all sin and bless god early will i seek him please take your troubles to him people will only confuse you they mean well but the battle is not yours or theirs its the lord .please in jesus wait and tell yourself that god word will bring you to the place of deliverence and your praise will keep the doors unlock pray until something happens you are not alone no weapon formed agasint you will proper it wont work love covers a multude of sins hes your husband fight the good fight of faith its working out for your good you will see and have power with god.stay in touch cant wait to hear how god did it for you so you can tell other broken women because they be many dont you want to please god not yourself hes using you for his glory youll a winner

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