I'm newly divorced and it sucks. My husband wanted the divorce, said he wasnt happy, that I was mean to him and had a bad attitude. There were some other issues as well. We moved to Hawaii last summer for his job and I had a terrible time adjusting. This move didn't cause our problems, but it didn't help either. He did not want to go to counseling or try to work things out because he thought it was too little too late. I've since moved out of Hawaii back to my home state and I'm trying to figure out the next steps of life. How do I get out of this guilt and self blame phase that I am in. I know he is at fault too, but all I can see is my fault.
I'm just so devastated, at least the rawness of this pain is gone, but I just feel empty and that I failed in my role as a wife. :(