My husband of 10 1/2 years came to me one day and said he didn't want to be with me anymore and that he had fallen for someone he worked with. I didn't even see it coming. We have three children, a two year old we planned and I thought had brought us closer together. Everything he has said in the last month is unlike him. His family who is being so supportive of me and the kids say that when they talk to him he sounds like a stranger. The other woman is also married with two children and she filed for divorce after my husband. Within a month they are living together and telling everyone to accept it. The only good thing that has happened because of this is my deepening bond with Jesus Christ. I always believed in God and prayed but I never went to church or really developed a strong relationship with Him. I know it sounds crazy but after I started praying I felt a sense of calm and peace come over me that I never felt before. I just know that everything is going to be alright and that my husband will come back before this divorce is final. Am I just being disallusional or did God give me this peace as a sign not to worry myself over something that will work itself out? Please if anyone has gone through this and think I am crazy just tell me. I am praying daily and am going to a wonderful church with wonderful people surronding me. I still cry when he calls but I don't beg him to come back anymore or to reconcile because I am putting him in God's hands. I just know that he is going to come back. Please if anyone out there has felt this way and it blew up in their face please tell me.