>>In the case of domestic violence, separation could be life-saving. But divorce is not biblical in that case. Certainly, God doesn’t want us to live with monsters, nor does He want us to marry them in the first place. Sometimes you can be duped and marry someone and then find out their ugliness and meanness. If we are believers, we should only marry believers. 2 Corinthians 6:14-18.
That alone could save people a lot of heartache and from being fooled
Well said - Right on sis.
>>Finding a new relationship is not the answer, because many of these women will find the same type of man again. They need healing. Then maybe they can find a healthy relationship
The offended party must continue to pray God woks in the heart of the offender and is not free to remarry unless the other person initiates the divorce or commits adultery.
>>God wants us to be happy.
God does want us to be joyful and blessed, indeed He does, but above all else, He wants us to believe in Him, in His word. He wants us to apply his word to our lives so we can be free. His word is in a DIRECT COLLISION WITH THE SYSTEM OF THE WORLD, so there is going to be huge internal turmoil when we confront such friction, but be assure beloved that God is 100% right every time and the counsel of the world, when it’s in direct collision with God's reveal will is always the wrong choice for us to make and it will only lead to pain. God's ways will be harder to live by in the beginning, but once we taste and see how awesome it is to be in His will, we will simply want more of Him and less of this sinful world.
God wants us to be obedient (for our own well being) above all. :)