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I am so angry right now and I don't want to be. I decided I was willing to have dinner with my husband and after getting through that we took our granddaughter (1 year old) to the park. I moved about 40 minutes away when we separated and I live only a few minutes from my work. My husband tells me how he doesn't like my church and how the town I'm in is the worst place he has ever lived. He then after awhile calls me a *itch and I am just so frustrated. He says how hurt he is and how I'm running away and that I should be back in the home. And that is a loving husband? I am trying to hard to even stay in the marriage and when he puts down my church, my place of where I'm living and more importantly starts calling me names again I just want to turn around and file papers. I am so angry and hurt! How can we survive all of this? How can our marriage make it through? I don't know what I am doing! Is there anyone that can truly heal when a marriage has got so bad? I so so need prayers. I hurt to the core of who I am! I don't want to go to bed angry.

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Comment by Marilyn Palmer on October 14, 2011 at 7:39am: He texted me and said he's terrified to live without me and I was expressing that I like where I'm living (the town) because it's been my home and where I've raised my kids for the past 27 years. I graduated here and I love where I go to church. He feels plugged in (and this is something he recently did since our break) at least TRULY plugging in and not just showing up. My intent on telling him that I like it here is to be real. I give in so much of the time (and it's because of his pressing) and we are both codependent (that is coming out through this). We are scheduled to meet with the pastor's wife (who is a license marriage counselor) on Monday and has seen us before this event and once since. In addition, we each are going to counseling to address our individual issues. All three counselors have agreed to work together so we work towards the same goal and my prayer is through this process we can truly heal because doing it our way has failed (an example is last night). Tim is hurting and I am hurting and hurt people hurt each other. I truly am praying we can learn to live together as husband and wife as God intends and we both need to learn how to do this. Thank you eveyone so much for your prayers! Yes Marty! SO TRUE!!!

Comment by Marilyn Palmer on October 13, 2011 at 10:15pm: Thank you so much for your prayers. At this point, all I can do is pray and trust that God can and will us.

Comment by a servant (Chris) on October 13, 2011 at 9:53pm: Marilyn

The fact that you don't want to go to bed angry, is a good thing. It has been almost 18 yrs since my divorce. I have never been the same again, however in many ways that is a good thing. I have no opinion about your marriage, but I will say that you are part of the Body of Christ and you are on my prayer list. No one has a right, to make another feel bad about themselves. After my divorce my heart was broken, even though it was me who left her.

God has been w/ me and, healing my heart for all this time. I have learned to forgive her, and asked her to forgive me. Marilyn I will be Praying for you and yours. It is hard to see black and white, in a gray world.

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