Healing from a broken heart

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Comment by Dorothy on April 20, 2011 at 9:39am

I didn't mean you get over in 3 months...just that you get to know them in 3 months.  It's funny but 3 month relationship can take 6 months to "get over".

 

Just Thank God since he was abusive that it didn't work.

 

Praise the Lord!

Comment by Julz on April 10, 2011 at 6:24pm

Dorothy, he was abusive..so it really screwed me up.

Comment by Dorothy on April 10, 2011 at 5:39pm

Dear Grazer,

 

I don't know how ling you have been in this relationship but from my observation a decision has always come within 3 months.  This may sound quick but think about it....  Didn't you know the person in about 3 months well enough to make the decision.  In management theory they say that in America, the 3 months in the time any manager has to make changes.  They are getting to know you and you them.  if you want to make changes it has to be in the 3 month window, otherwise, if you make changes after that it will cause mistrust in the environment.   Ironically this 3 month has come up in many other situations when evaluating others.

 

My suggestion, if it hasn't worked, move on.  her opinion is not likely to change.

 

God's Blessings to You.

Comment by Julz on April 7, 2011 at 6:17pm

Thanks guys, I'm feeling better already.  The guy used me and deceived me the whole way.  It is quite depressing and I'm working on healing still.  Each day God has strengthened me as I've asked for help and guidance.

Comment by Dorothy on April 6, 2011 at 8:40pm

I will pray for your need for a loving christian partner to share your life.  Before I found my husband, I too felt an emptiness.  I have been married for 20 years so it has been a long time ago but I still remember the disappointments and the heart ache.  It is terrible!  My God give You comfort in these trying times.