finding the truth

i would like to hear from all of you to help me understand how some christains think marriage is not that important any more they at least some do say it is alright for both sexe's to marry but it don't say that in the bible that is why god made male and female but they say as long as you love someone it is alright i find that very hard to believe that god meant it that way i try to love my fellow man but i don't can't see getting married to one this is just my opinion corky58