establishing peace and order

what is it that gets people ticking?

is it because...

someone did not agree with you on your ideas or thoughts

someone said something mean that hurt your feelings?

someone did not respect your wishes as you asked the first time?

or is it because

you thought that you were right and that there could not be any other way to explain>

you gave power to their words of unrighteous love an opportunity to bring pain to your heart>?

you thought that you were the bigger person to be able to ask first out of respect before establishing respect with the other person you are dealing with?

sometimes what you ask for can be respectful in your sight but in the sight of one in the Lord it can be abominable