BlueEyesFr's Page

Gender

Male

Country (not County)

France

Occupation:

bilingual secretary

I'm here to...

Meet other people who are Christians and make friends with people of similar beliefs who will not judge me because of my mistakes but who will help me in my struggles and return to a life more in tune with the Christian life

Interests:

Swimming, walking, reading, cooking, religions in sofar as they improve the human condition and our lives as human beings, healthy lifestyle, fantasy books, languages, meeting good people, making this place a better place to live.

I'm passionate about...

Nature, swimming, walking, healthy lifestyle, true love, friends who will support you and help you rather than hurt you and destroy you, music, crafts...

My story with God

I was born a catholic and became a mormon, though an inactive one. In my family there are people who were catholics and who hurt me so bad that I was almost destroyed and, as a consequence, i was lost, drifted away in a drifting world and made terrible mistakes that could have cost my life (also through the action of other people). Lately as a result of this, I was interested in changing my life around and returning to safer paths. I went to the Mormon church to get to know it better but learned about their polygamist past and their "we are the only true church". Also they require total obedience and adherence to their particular doctrine and practices, something I will never do as I consider that even though religions offer good advice, they have also been the source of many wars and misery. I, moreover, have a total lack of trust for any church which is base on the complete subservience of women to men..... The greatest commandment that God gave us was to love one another as he loved us and therefore there is no room in any christian fellowship for sexism or abuse of any sort. When I spake of my feelings regarding the character of Joseph Smith, i was told not to come back to the Mormon church. So that's the end of my regard and adherence to the Mormon faith. I command their healthy lifestyle but certainly dont command many other things. So i would lkie to find a church where I feel loved and encouraged to become a better person rather than being rejected and forsaken for the mistakes I made (which i would not have made by the way if the catholics in my family had been true Christians and if I had been given support and love when I was lost and damaged because of other people's actions or because I felt rejected and unloved. So this is why I would like to meet Christians who will not judge me for my mistakes but encourage me to become a better person and love me despite of my mistakes or the hurt I have suffered from other people's actions.

Other stuff about me:

I want to meet new and kind people who are trying to lead good life and are good examples to follow.

By the way, I dont want to build a relationship with Christ based on guilt but one based on hope and change of habits and finding like friends in the Christian community.

God is not about being condemned but it is a about hope and change after acknowledging that we did not always followed his commandments. God is about turning around through his love, forgiveness and the love and forgiveness of Christian fellow men and that's what I am looking for in the Community of Christ