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What can I do?
Greetings to all brothers and sisters,
I decided to start my first discussion because I'm in desperate need of advice. I just really need to spill what's on my mind because just about now a fact painfully struck me in my heart.
First of all, the root of my problem lies in the fact that only very few of my friends believe in God and have faith in Jesus. Especially my family, even my very own parents, don't believe that God is out there. The time is rather spent drinking alcohol and doing other insignificant things.
Two aunts of mine own a bar, of which one of them, my parents frequently visit. And so do I. I've grown up there (the first time I had been there was when I was 3 years old.) Throughout the years I've also built up friendships with the people there and I care a lot about them.
It hurts me so bad, it tears up my heart to merely think of the inevitable fact that my best friends, and my family - including my parents, will be condemned for eternity since they lack faith in Christ. I've been trying to make small moves by telling them my beliefs, the pros of having faith and the pleasure it brings to praise the Lord. They respect it, but they don't feel anything for it themselves. Persuading others has never been one of my strong points. And I also don't want to make the impression as if I'm wanting to force it down their throats. That wouldn't work anyway, they have to be willing to accept Christ themselves.
I pray for all of them daily. That they may be saved through Christ before it is all too late because I care about every single one of them and all of them mean a lot to me. I feel so horrible to know I can barily do anything but pray; I would see nothing rather than to see them coming to God..
Bringing up another point:
I have never attended a church, since I am not raised within a Christian household it has never been a habit. I am 16 years old now, but I don't know where to start with looking for a church to attend. Besides, my idea of going to church has always been that it is a family-occasion. Picturing the mother and the father attending church together with their child(ren) to thank and praise the Lord, and to seek comfort from our Holy Father. It saddens me to realise I probably will never be part of such a picture and to never be able to share the happiness of being into God with my own family and friends.
That is about it for now that I had to get off of my heart.
Thank you very much for your time when you have read it, it means a lot to me.
God bless you all.
I decided to start my first discussion because I'm in desperate need of advice. I just really need to spill what's on my mind because just about now a fact painfully struck me in my heart.
First of all, the root of my problem lies in the fact that only very few of my friends believe in God and have faith in Jesus. Especially my family, even my very own parents, don't believe that God is out there. The time is rather spent drinking alcohol and doing other insignificant things.
Two aunts of mine own a bar, of which one of them, my parents frequently visit. And so do I. I've grown up there (the first time I had been there was when I was 3 years old.) Throughout the years I've also built up friendships with the people there and I care a lot about them.
It hurts me so bad, it tears up my heart to merely think of the inevitable fact that my best friends, and my family - including my parents, will be condemned for eternity since they lack faith in Christ. I've been trying to make small moves by telling them my beliefs, the pros of having faith and the pleasure it brings to praise the Lord. They respect it, but they don't feel anything for it themselves. Persuading others has never been one of my strong points. And I also don't want to make the impression as if I'm wanting to force it down their throats. That wouldn't work anyway, they have to be willing to accept Christ themselves.
I pray for all of them daily. That they may be saved through Christ before it is all too late because I care about every single one of them and all of them mean a lot to me. I feel so horrible to know I can barily do anything but pray; I would see nothing rather than to see them coming to God..
Bringing up another point:
I have never attended a church, since I am not raised within a Christian household it has never been a habit. I am 16 years old now, but I don't know where to start with looking for a church to attend. Besides, my idea of going to church has always been that it is a family-occasion. Picturing the mother and the father attending church together with their child(ren) to thank and praise the Lord, and to seek comfort from our Holy Father. It saddens me to realise I probably will never be part of such a picture and to never be able to share the happiness of being into God with my own family and friends.
That is about it for now that I had to get off of my heart.
Thank you very much for your time when you have read it, it means a lot to me.
God bless you all.
Replies to This Discussion
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Permalink Reply by lynne on -
hello, first of all its so honest of you to share how your'e feeling. I too didnt have a christian up-bringing and never gave God and Jesus a second thought, until i was 31 (im now 37), and even though my mum witnessed God save me from a life of alcoholism she still doesnt believe for herself. I used to get all stressed and worried about her but now i trust that as she watches how my life is changing everyday she will begin to know without a doubt that He is real and will want to know Him. The most important thing is to keep praying for your family and friends, then to keep leaning on God in good times aswell as in bad times and let His glory show in your life for them all to see. lots of love lynne.
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Permalink Reply by journeymanhd on -
Hello my friend,
First let me say that you are asking for help from Jesus and taking the steps to create a relationship of Love and trust with our Lord. You are very wise for sixteen dear friend. Prayer is a very powerful way to talk to God. God is our "Father" our creator. He is Love, and Loves you more than you will ever know. You can be an example to your family and help show them what a relationship with Jesus can be for them. God goes not give you feelings of fear. Satan puts in your thoughts, "I'll never be part of this picture", God wants you to know that through Him "all things are possible". Finding a good Church is a great start. support by fellow Christians is important. Remember as you ask questions and examine your new relationship with Jesus ask questions. Read the Word of God and really get to know your new friend! Whenever you have doubt ,fear,joy,happiness go to God and share with him. Most of all don't forget to say "Thank you Lord". Everyone Loves to know when someone is thankful especially God. Look how much he has given us. May God Bless you on your journey. Your courage is a gift my friend. Thanks for sharing with us. Do what you can do. Pray for God to do what you can't.
joureneymanhd
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Permalink Reply by Darlene Hight on -
Welcome to the family! (family of Christ) You are doing the right thing in praying for your family. I know how you feel about your family because it has been this way in mine for over twenty years and it is a little overwhelming. The important thing to remember is that bringing your family to the Lord is not your job. God draws people to Himself. He will allow you opportunities to live out your faith in front of your family and at times it will be really hard but ultimately, God does the work Himself. As far as church, let me strongly encourage you to begin trying churches. Pray about where God would have you go and then just go. Some people think that they can live the Christian life alone but it is a little like a log which rolls away from the campfire. It will burn for awhile but soon it will burn out. We need other Christians to help us walk and grow in Christ.
Blessings and thanks so much for sharing your heart.
Darlene
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Permalink Reply by Dong E on -
Hello Domin,
You're a seed that God planted in your family....have your faith in God always burning and do good in accordance to His will, teachings and obey His commandments of LOVE. With this your father, mother, and all the members of your family will know that you're already a Christian. In your good deeds you can share in your own little way of preaching the Good News of Salvation especially to your family.
God Bless and goodluck....
Dong
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