All About GOD
San
Female
NC
United States
Profile Information:
- Gender
- Female
- Country (not County)
- US
- Occupation:
- Retired RN
- I'm here to...
- recently divorced (a week ago)
- Interests:
- Bible Archaeology reading, flowers and gardening, my kids and their jobs, etc., singing, sewing, Judaism, wanting to learn Hebrew and Greek.
- I'm passionate about...
- being where God wants me to be and learning more about him
- My story with God
- Grew up in a charismatic church but always felt alot of what I saw wasn't genuine. Felt there was alot of legalism but, not enough love for one another. Bore the brunt of alot of hurt from Christians. Became discouraged for awhile. Want a deeper relationship with God.
- Other stuff about me:
- I know that I am a loyal person. If I was someone else, I'd want me for a friend. I can be hurt easily but I don't fight battles. I usually just walk away. I hate conflict. I used to travel and sing in churches. I stopped all that for health reasons. I took my mother's advice and married a Christian man from a nearby church in 2006 after being divorced for 20 years. After many signs, I did this just knowing it was the Will of God. Shortly after we married in June, I was diagnosed with Hep C in August. I had contracted it while working in the Emergency Dept. years before. I started chemo for this around Jan. 2007. I got really sick. I would go to my mother's in the daytime. One Friday in April, too sick and weak to drive home, I called him to come get me. He told me just to stay at mama's where she and my daughter could take care of me. Around that same time, he met a woman on ChristianMingle.com. He didn't tell me. His mother who lived with us didn't tell me til much later after he had gone to Ohio, picked her up and spent 8 days with her in York, Pa. which is where she was from. July 30th he sent me a birthday card with 100 dollars in it. Aug. 17th he went back to her house and gave her an engagement ring. We were not even legally separated and I still didn't know anything about her. Sept. 3rd, he called me and told me he wanted me to come get my bedroom set cause he was buying a new set. Sept. 4th, my daughter came home and told me about this other woman. She had seen his brother and his brother's girlfriend at a gas station and they had told her about this woman. I called his mother. She said, "Lord, this has been going on two months or more but, I didn't know what to do about telling you. He's already been up there and spent 8 days with her." I was devastated. I went to his house on Sept. 5th. He had rented a uhaul truck and he and his son loaded all my furniture in it. I just sat in my truck and watched. When I asked him what was going on he just responded, "you left me." I said, "but, Johnny, you're a Christian!" He said he still was. I said what about this woman? He said, "she's a Christian, too; you just don't understand, she's got a good heart and San, she's a Godly woman!" He left Sept. 7th, went to Ashville, Ohio and moved her and two of her youngest sons in with him. He divorced me June 27th and they're already married. I'm still in shock. I didn't contest or even go to court. Anybody care to do some explaining to me if they have more insight than I do?
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