i have composed a letter of encouragement for couples that have been having marriage problems please read it and let me know what you think of it. god bless



STANDING FOR YOUR MARRIAGE


No matter what we go through, I know that we can stand; I know that we can make it; you don’t have to worry about any thing for joy comes in the morning. When the test and triamps seems to get you down and your friends and loved ones are no where to be found don’t give up hope co’s there’s a friend name JESUS.

With JESUS we can make it and stand firm for our marriages, financial problems, sicknesses, stand firm against any witchcraft spirits, divorce spirits, separation spirits, transferent spirits, generational curses, sangomas, African spirits, Muslim spirits, temple ashes, monkey ball spirits, false lying deceitful tongues.

GODS promise to us is that he would not leave us until he has done what he has promised us , no weapons formed against us shall prevail for you ‘o lord are our shield , our protector. We must take up courage and perserver towards standing firm in the lord. For the word of god says that “GOD HAS ORDAINED MARRIAGES, IT’S A SACRED MATRIMONIAL THAT A COUPLE SHARE TOGETHER TILL DEATH DO THEM APART”, which two god has joined together let man not separate.

The only way and only answer towards a marriage restoration/reconciliation is our LORD AND SAVOUR JESUS CHRIST, don’t give up hope and faith in JESUS, he is there waiting for you just reach out to him and cry out to him, he will wipe away all your tears “THEY THAT SOW IN TEARS SHALL REAP IN JOY “.If your spouse has sinned against you by cheating on you forgive him / her for their mistakes, reconcile and this time around build your marriage on a strong foundation and let JESUS be that strong foundation.

Don’t seek a divorce co’s god hates divorce, the word of god says if you happen to divorce remain single or be reconciled to your spouse, if you happen to divorce and marry some one else you would be committing adultery, if you are finding it difficult to cope up with the pain that you are going through just commit every thing to the lord in prayer for there is nothing that’s impossible for the lord to do.

When you pray just believe it with all your heart what ever you ask for in JESUS name believing it so it shall be done for you by our father in heaven. JESUS said to his disciples be careful wolf comes in sheep’s clothing ,be on guard at all times, pray at all times so that you may not fall in to temptation. The enemy is out there to steal from you, your marriage’s , your family, your children being disobedient, adultery, divorce etc, just let JESUS intervene in our life, marriages, our family etc and wait and see what big difference it makes for god makes all things beautiful in his time not according to our time.


Let god pour out his love and blessings upon your marriage so that you and your spouse would love each other unconditionally and be there for one another in good times and in bad times till death do you’ll apart. For the pain will end, you don’t have to worry about any thing for god can see your tears he will wipe them away and be there for you .AMEN


PLEASE PRAY THIS PRAYER FOR A POWERFULL HEALING IN YOUR MARRIAGE, YOUR LIFE AND YOUR FAMILY’S LIFE:


Heavenly father I cry out for your hands of mercy ‘o lord to heal me, heal my hurting and dead marriage, raise my marriage from the grave put a new breath of life in my marriage, pour the precious blood of Jesus upon my marriage my self , my spouse , my children’s , my house. Send your angels to encamped round us protecting us from every danger, for I am weak I need your love to free me, you are my rock, you are my hope, for you ‘o lord are my salvation in weakness. Come dwell in me ‘o lord for there’s none like you, you are slow to anger, full of love, full of compassion. Come rescue me and my family ‘o lord from the clutches of the enemy , for your promise never fails me , I believe it with all my heart father that you have answered my prayers , I ask this prayer IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF OUR LORD AND SAVOUR JESUS CHRIST . AMEN



COMPOSED BY: BRONSON PILLAY


STANDING FIRM IN THE LORD FOR A MARRIAGE RECONCILIATION

THANK YOU JESUS

Greetings In JESUS name DELLA

JESUS said to his disciples be careful wolf comes in sheep’s clothing ,be on guard at all times, pray at all times so that you may not fall in to temptation.

GOD BLESS

My dear brother,
Let the word of God in colossians 2:6&7 " As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in Him. Rooted and built up in Him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught,abounding therein with thanksgiving." be your guide. Study the word and be prayerful. Have faith in God. See Him as a loving father that will not deny you any good thing. Welcome to the family of God's people. Stay blessed.
inibehe.

Good day to u my friend, its really great everyday praising en thanking God for everything He has done for us!
yesterday upon reading one of my email/newsletter.. I heard a small voice telling me to send the message for that day to people who need to read that msg...
FOR I, THE LORD YOUR GOD, WILL HOLD YOUR RIGHT
HAND, SAYING TO YOU, "FEAR NOT, I WILL HELP
YOU."
( ISAIAH 41:13 *NKJV )
We often face troubling times in our lives that
cause us to worry, and lose sleep. As a child of God you
have Him at your side, holding your hand, and guiding
your pathway through those times. For, THE LORD IS
GOOD, A STRONGHOLD IN THE DAY OF TROUBLE;
AND HE KNOWS THOSE WHO TRUST IN HIM.
( NAHUM 1:7 )
He will never abandon HIS Children, throughout
their entire lives. For He is always with us no matter
what we may face, as He further promised: WHEN YOU
PASS THROUGH THE WATERS, I WILL BE WITH YOU;
AND THROUGH THE RIVERS,* THEY SHALL NOT
OVERFLOW YOU. WHEN YOU WALK THROUGH THE
FIRE,* YOU SHALL NOT BE BURNED, NOR SHALL
THE FLAME SCORCH YOU. ( ISAIAH 43:2 )
[*Rivers and *Fire in the verse represent difficulties in our
lives]
Therefore, FEAR NOT, FOR I AM WITH YOU; BE NOT
DISMAYED, FOR I AM YOUR GOD. I WILL
STRENGTHEN YOU, YES, I WILL HELP YOU, I WILL
UPHOLD YOU WITH MY RIGHTEOUS RIGHT HAND.
( ISAIAH 41:10 )
So the next time you face troubling times, do as Jesus
said: "LET NOT YOUR HEART BE TROUBLED; YOU
BELIEVE IN GOD, BELIEVE ALSO IN ME." (JOHN 14:1)
Then WHEN YOU LIE DOWN, YOU WILL NOT BE
AFRAID; YES, YOU WILL LIE DOWN AND YOUR
SLEEP WILL BE SWEET. ( PROVERBS 3:24 )
Now have a great day walking hand and hand with God, Amen.
So i started searching people from this site.. en asking God to lead me where do i have send the msg... en i know He allowed it to happen for He knows very well what's inside r heart..He knows our needs..
and i was really amazed upon receiving comments from u my dear friends..God is always in good timing isn't it?
Sometimes, even wer already christians, en saying we surrender our lives to God, tru our attitudes, the way we handle situations in r lives doesn't reflect our christianity...en i'm not exempted in that fact...hehehhehe..but one thing for sure as written in Mty.4:4man does not live on bread alone...but on every Word that comes from the mouth of God..His Words is really what we need daily in r lives..That's why wer here dear friends to strengthen each other... uplift our faith,our believes,en glorify God for all things He has done for us!Let's magnify God, not our problems...prayers r powerful weapon but i know worshipping God all the times is the key of all His Blessings we hev right now,even trials en tribulations can turn into big blessings my friends...
1Thes.5:16-18: Rejoice,pray en give thanks...
Praise be to God...
God bless u en ur family...

Thanks my brother. God has shown us an example of true love, Loving us when we did not love Him. Be strong in the Lord.
inibehe.

I always think when we battle storms in our lives of the disciples in the boat at Sea, and Jesus asleep. The Strom began to rage and they were so afraid. ( Like us during those battles of life) Then they awoke Jesus and He said" Peace Be Still" That is all He had to say is: " Peace Be Still" in the stillness is where we often find our answers. Sometimes in life during our storms we talk too much. We need to try to maintain peace in the who relationship, or problem at hand and go forward peacefully, and know god is going to be in charge., The best will come , the best may not be what we want, ( and yet it can be) but it will be just the right thing at the right time.
God be with you Bronx, you have gone through a hard time, and yet am sure you have learned so much and became stronger, and best of all you have found the Lord and eternal life in Him! Congratulations on now becoming a child of God! Our brother in Christ!

Meaningful Life
If you’ve never asked the question
Who or when or why or how
Give your mind that great suggestion
Go ahead and do it now

You will find when you consider
All the options that abound
There is still but one conclusion
Where peace of mind is found

It’s not in education
In religion or in books
In retirement funds and IRAs
Or how the market looks

It’s not in status or in style
How low in golf you score
It’s not the running of a mile
Or who you’re working for

It’s not the price you pay for things
It’s not the jewels and fancy rings
It’s not the checks and credit cards
Secured by all those guns and guards

It’s not the beauty of your face
It’s not a matter of your face
It’s not the muscle on your bones
Your classy looks or great skin tones

What matters most in life today
Is where you stand along the way
Not what you have but what you are
How faith in God succeeds by far

God is the answer to the question
Of the who, when, why or how
And He gives the invitation:
‘TRUST IN ME AND DO IT NOW’’

You’ll find God meets your deepest need
With His kind words your soul He’ll feed
He guide your steps and makes things right
He’ll turn darkness into light…..

Brother this song,Healer reminds me of you and your determination to stand for your marraige.

This brother had just found out that He had cancer and the Lord birth this song. I have watched it every day for the last week and I cry a river every time.

Bronx my prayers are with you that Jesus will lead and guide you through this difficult time.

Bronx
I am so excited for your sake, for just stand firm in your faith and God will honor your faith. THe Word says Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these others things will be added onto you. When you seek God with your whole heart, God will restore your life and add to it. But God is a jealous God and He wants all of us. Revival always begins firstly inside yourself, start worshipping Him, seek His ways, and you will see the changes in your life. I will continue praising Father for restoration of your family. Attend your church and get teaching of how to be the head of your family and seek in Gods word the role of you as the husband and father of your household, you will surely see the difference in your life and you can be a example to others!!
Blessings to you my friend and a wonderful week for you in the presence of hte Lord!
Blessings Nienie

Dear brother it was good to hear how god encouraged you. It spoke volumes to her to hear your repentant heart.
I will share with you some wisdom god gave me when I became separated from my wife and family after 25 years. I began to seek the Lord like never before and He gave me a verse from the Bible that has helped me so much.
Jerimiah 6:16 says, the Lord said unto His people to stand at the crossroad and look, ask for the best road and walk in it and you will live in peace.
This is where we have gone wrong in the past, by choosing to go down the wrong path that led to sin and destruction for us.
Day by day for over 2 years I have lived like this and seen some great things happen.
I am not back with my wife yet, but live in an apartment in the same house for the last year. She ask me to come here and I knew it was the right path for me. I see her almost every day, most of all I see my 17 year old daughter all the time.
Brother your daughter suffers most from your separation so continue down the good path that you are on. Thank you for sharing with me.
In the love of Jesus
Bob

Man you got it down good! I will share something with you that I heard recently.
Joseph went from a prison to a palace right.
But have you ever thought the Joseph did not know that he was a month away from going from a prison to a palace, he did not know he was a week from going from a prison to a palace, he did not know that he was a day from going from a prison to a palace, nor did He know that in a minute he was going from a prison to a palace.
We do not know when our prayers will be answered and our dream become a reality. So take heart my friend because you do not know if your a month, a week, a day, or minutes away from going from a prison to a palace

Brother,

I will be standing with you daily on this. Our God can work miracles as you know. In relationships He can change hearts and heal the hurts of the past.

May God's hand be upon you and your wife as you go through this trying time.

Lord Bless,
LT

I asked God…

I asked God to take away my pain
God said, No
-it is not for me to take away,
But for you to give up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole
God said, No
-Her spirit was whole, her body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience
God said, No
-patience is a by-product of tribulations,
It isn’t granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness
God said, No
-I give you blessings, happiness is up to you.
I asked God to make my spirit grow
God said, No
-you must grow on your own
but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life
God said, No
-I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things
I asked God to helped me LOVE others,
as much as He loves me
God said…..
Ahhh, finally you have the idea.

God loves You!

Thank you so much for sharing that email with me. I love the way it discribed the rebuilding proscess and the hinerances. Like plastering a house it takes time and patience. The story reminded me of the book of Neimiah when they were rebuilding the walls that we broken down around Jerusalen. It was not an easy job and they faced enemies, discouragement, frustration, but in the end they did it.
Bronx I continue to pray for you my brother that God's grace will be with you as you seek to rebuild your mairage. I pray for your wife that God will help her to recieve you back and that once again you will have a home for your daughter where she can have a mom and a dad in her life every day. Father touch my brothers heart this day and heal his wounded broken heart. Lord help him to stay close to you so he can hear your voice and may he find peace that passes all understanding that will keep his heart and mind in Christ Jesus. You will show him wisdom and light the path before him so he does not stumble. Today Father fill Bronx with your Spirit and continue your good work in his heart and life in the name of Jesus. I am leaving you a video called healer. If you listen to the scripture he reads from Isaiah 53 you will see it goes for healing in our souls (mind,will,emotions)also.

Wow my friend you were indeed blessed with this email and thanks for sharing it with me, indeed did you lift up my spirit as well thanks so much. Please make this verses and teaching your own, pray this over your life. It is good to spent time in the Word for there is our strength, our comfort and our reason to go on!! Put everyday the armor of God on and pray the word over your life and circumstance will look up some verses to send you to pray , i have a prayer I will send to you to pray everyday to reconcile your marriage. I will foward it to you soon. Blessings to you !!

Praise God for the healing!!! You see the Word of God is always true especially for those who believe!!! You see in Hebr 11: 6 says witout faith it s impossible to please God, praying still for you!!!Have a lovely evening and many blessings!!1

You are welcome Bronx! The pleasure is two-way really for it is my pleasure too to have you as a friend. I think I like the passion of Christ I see reflected in you. Did you know that South Africa is a special country for God's plan for the whole of Africa? Be glad for it is...and sing Psalms. Blessings-Pst. Bernhard C.

Hi Bronx. I read your testimony and I know that our God is faithful and will reward your faith.I can't wait to hear you tell us that your marraige has been restored. I will be praying along with the others for you. God willing, it will be soon. We can't profess to know exactly how God will work things out, but we know that He promises that He will never leave us or forsake us, and His promises are true.

Bronx,

I am so happy for you. You are right...nothing gives us more delight than being with our loved ones.

I am going out of office now but will keep an eye for you tomorrow. Would love to get to know you more!

You are in my prayers...plus your wife and daughter. God bless-Pst. Bernhard C.

My brother, I am Glad that Pastor Brateng is one of your friends, You will not find another equal to the grace and wisdom that is in this man. The teaching you sent me is awesome. Humility means submisive to some one. When we are showed the error of our ways by the Lord, then we repent it is over. the problem many deal with is not getting honest with God, themselve, others. We tend to be like Adam and Eve and want to cover over our sin. I really like what was said about Peter who when he was confronted with the truth, repented and was not removed from his position. I am always amazed by who Peter became as a believer, it brings encouragement to me because like peter I blow it some times.
1Peter 5;
6 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time;
7 casting all your anxiety upon him, because he careth for you.
8 Be sober, be watchful: your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour,
9 whom withstand stedfast in your faith, knowing that the same sufferings are accomplished in your brethren who are in the world.
10 And the God of all grace, who called you unto his eternal glory in Christ, after that ye have suffered a little while, shall himself perfect, establish, strengthen you.
11 To him be the dominion for ever and ever. Amen.

I can tell that God is doing a deep wonderful work in your life. I continue to stand with you for the restoration of your family.
Psalm 84:11 says The lord God is a sun and a shield, He gives grace and glory and no good thing will he with hold from them who walk uprightly.
In the love of Jesus.
Bob
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Hello mydear friend
Thanks so much for letting me know about your visit with your wife and daughter. God is an amazing God and He will answer your prayers and a marriage to Him is a very sacred covenant and if you are willing to work for your mariiage He will restore it, better than it was before. I will send you the prayer am just busy with washing and preparing dinner for my kids after a looooooooong busy day!!
BLessings!!!

Dear brother isnt it funny that we are guilty of staying awake for that one hour to pray! But in that mail is surely a lesson to learn . I am so glad for the uplifting mails you receive for you need it now!!
May you have a peaceful night and may you feel Gods presence in your life!
Good night!

just quick hello and may God bless you abundantly today and may you experience His power in your life and in the lives of you wife and kids. How great t is to know a father accepets Christ and byt doing that a whole family can be saved and as the word say me and my household we will serve the LOrd.
Blessings hope the cold is better!Nienie

Hi!

Have a lovely day Bronx as you work today. I can't thank you enough for being nice enough to share those uplifting messages with me. I equally liked your compiled research on marriage restoration. Brother, there is nothing that tears at my heart more than to see families increasingly disintegrate and break-up. It is satans ploy to defeat the plan of God.

Will get back to you later. God bless you and may He fill you up with happiness my dear friend!-Pst. Bernhard C.

My brother Bronx I was very hesitant to leave you this video, but we will only respond to his love when we fully understand how great his sacrifice was for us and how much it cost to save us. For some one to die like this for us who are sinful to me is the greatest love I know. Brother when God restores your family always remember how much it cost for the Lord to save you and it will compel you to love him and your wife and family.
Let this message enter into your heart that is receptive, and good soil.
The love of God be poured out into your soul by the Holy Spirit and may it overflow into your every day life, touching everyone you know. In the name of Jesus.
Bob

Hey Bronx,

Thanks for the positive words left on my page.

Praying for you brother,
LT

Praise God HE is always taking care of His children!!
YEs was a busy day today but thanks to Him i have the strength to do everything HE wants me to do.
I pray that you will still keep your faith strong for the Lord to do a miracle in your life!. Draw near to Him and HE will draw near to you!!
Have good nights rest!! Blessings

hi how are you may God bless you & your family sister in Christ Melanny

That was Good stuff I saved it under resolving conflicts. You are so wise to edjucate yourself on all these issues. You see, you can't controll the way other people behave, but you can change the way they respond to you by the way we live our live. My wife know that I am a Christian, she knows where I will nort compromise, she knows that my well being is not dependant on how she interacts or doesn't interact with me. She also knows she is not responcible for my happieness. We can never give that responcibility to anyone else. it is my choice to be happy or not. She most of all knows that my relationship with the Lord is supreme in my life. In the past I compromised, and apeased her to keep the peace. It never works to live like that.
Brother you are most deffinately on the right path.
I am blessed and continue to stand with you. know that you can speak in private to me if you ever need to in the net mail. I know there are days that you are doing better than other. I am with you.
In the love of Jesus.
Bob

the prayer i prayed for myself if it might help, (holyspirt come between my spirit and the spirit of nicoteen amen)

Bronx,

Thanks my brother for you care and good wishes. I am also at work and pray that your Friday is blessed.

I was touched to know that God allowed some quality time for you and your wife yesterday. He jealously guards over the family unit and will restore you Bronx. He will my friend.

I liked the research you posted me. Have just copied it and pasted it in a folder I have opened under your name. If I delete it from my page, don't feel offended for I prefer reading my longer, indepth mails back in the house. I understand them more.

Thanks brother and keep them coming.

A warm brotherly hug you get-Pst. Bernhard C.

One Step At A Time

One step at a time is the best way to go
When going through life and traveling in the direction of your dreams
The best way to get ahead is the simpliest way:
Take one step at a time
Don’t look over your shoulder
If you do, you’ll feel the weight of all your yesterdays upon you
And don’t worry about what lies ahead
By the time you get to the bend in the road or the crest of the hill
You’re going to be better and stronger than you ever were before
Just go one step at a time
One day at a time
And you’ll find a rich, thankful life you never thought you could afford….

Bronx i wish that a got this very helpful information for my first marriage!

Bronx that was a masterpiece on Biblical marriage. I sent a copy to my Pastor to use in counsellings. Do you have the name of who wrote it? I would love to read more of his stuff.
I am so encouraged by these little signs that you and your wife are coming back together.

I will warn you not to share all these things with her at first. She will think it is a ploy to get her back.

Just allow the fruit of the Holy Spirit come forth in your life. Be loving, kind, gentle, be peaceful with a meek attitude as if she were a queen.
Allow her to see the joy, most of all patience.

You charmed her once before when she agreed to marry you. Fall in love with her all over again. Brother if I were there with you I would be dancing around your home with you because of all that God is doing in your life.
Zephaniah 3:17 says that the Lord your God in the midst of you is mighty, that he rejoices over you with singing, It literally means He is dancing in celebration over you.

Pray for me that I will also do what I have told you to do. It is all much easier said than done. But with holy Spirit helping us all things are possible, Amen!
In the Love of Christ.
Bob

You can definitely count on me to pray about it. I am excited just thinking about what will happen. God bless you Bronx. God is in control.

Hey Bronx? I just finished listening to the excerpt on the Power.....Marraige and I have to say that it was so timely. God just knows what we need before we ask. My husband and I are going thru a rough spot and I needed some insights into what was happening. Thank you so much for sharing. It was just the encouragement I needed. By the way how do you add this kinda stuff to your page. I am so technology backward, my husband is a computer guru but he has no teaching patience so I don't ask.

When are you posting part 2?

Sounds like a great Birthday she will have, and a wonderful new beginning for both of you, will be praying!! Sounds like you will win her over, once more!
God Bless,

Hey brother how are you? Yes it si woza weekend but to me Idont even feel weekend for i have to work and still have preparations for tomorrows sundayschool so the week end is actuall very short for me! But nevertheless I am going tomake the most of it through the strenght of our Father.
Wow BRonx this is awesome teaching material!! Indeed lifts up the spirit and helps people to deal with their marriage the Bibilical way and that is good!!
I know you are on the right path and that your heart is seeking God and what He wants for you and just that is a winning attitude for HE always knows best!! I believe that every broken marriage is not in Gods will, especially a first marriage and when children are born out of it. Satan wants to destroy our marriages for in doing so he destroy the whole circle of family and friends! But it is time we stand up against the works of the enemy and pray and let God restore our broken marriages.
Stand in agreement with you for restoration for yours! Can you imagine a restored family all serving God !!!!!
Blessings for the weekend!!

I can't wait until you say we spent hours together.

Hi Bronx,
Thanks for your comments.

God Blessings
Ajith

Greetings my brother
Shame I know thath feeling!!! Also worked today and is nearly finished with my sundayschool preparations then I am off to bed. am very tired and have a sudden pain in the stomach dont know what seemed to be the problem, but as usual i have to know that mr devil wants to steal kill and destroy and i am not going to give him the pleasure.
Get yourself something to eat, take a nice warm bath, make quality time with Father and have a peaceful night!!
Blessings

Thank you brother. And I welcome you into the Book of Life. That means borned again. I am so happy for you. I will pray for you and your family. Do you have children also?

Hi BRonx
Glad you started a group named marriage reconciliation, was going to suggest it to you. You must really add those wonderful emails that you got to your group it will help a great deal to others who is in the same boat as you are. Thanks so much for the wonderful pics, I now no one as the faintest idea about how JEsus look like but when i see a pic like these it always made me feel HE is holding me like that!
May you grow stronger each day when you are sitting at His feet, not only for your marriage restoration but to complete your life in HIm.
Have alovely day rest enough for tomorrow is MOnday!!
BLessings

friend... 'nice to hear bout wat happen in ur wed anni.... yes indeed God is great... He knows the desire of r heart... Regards en God bless....