The problum I had when my wife went to heaven - All About GOD2024-03-29T05:35:34Zhttp://www.allaboutgod.net/forum/topics/the-problum-i-had-when-my-wife-went-to-heaven?commentId=1383940%3AComment%3A1739645&xg_source=activity&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI encourage you to read 3 pas…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-14:1383940:Comment:17395562017-08-14T22:25:23.164ZLeonard Thttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/lrtraina
<p>I encourage you to read 3 passages of Scripture asking God to give you peace and comfort:<br/><br/>1 Corinthians 15</p>
<p>1 Thessalonians 4 (especially from verse 13 to the end of the chapter)</p>
<p>Romans 8</p>
<p>I encourage you to read 3 passages of Scripture asking God to give you peace and comfort:<br/><br/>1 Corinthians 15</p>
<p>1 Thessalonians 4 (especially from verse 13 to the end of the chapter)</p>
<p>Romans 8</p> I could give you various Scri…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-14:1383940:Comment:17397402017-08-14T22:20:59.577ZLeonard Thttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/lrtraina
<p>I could give you various Scripture that reveal the limited knowledge we have regarding life after physical death, yet alive in His presence ... but that is not really the question here. You want to either be there or have her back here. Why after so many years of marriage does one go and the other stay behind for a while is beyond our understanding.</p>
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<p>One could question God's love, but He has fully demonstrated His love by dying on the cross and providing a path to new life in…</p>
<p>I could give you various Scripture that reveal the limited knowledge we have regarding life after physical death, yet alive in His presence ... but that is not really the question here. You want to either be there or have her back here. Why after so many years of marriage does one go and the other stay behind for a while is beyond our understanding.</p>
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<p>One could question God's love, but He has fully demonstrated His love by dying on the cross and providing a path to new life in Him, a life we do not deserve and cannot earn. One of the greatest struggles of man is understanding that we were created in God's image and that God was not created in ours. His ways and our ways are vastly different, yet while we are able to grow in Christ-likeness we still struggle with the sinful flesh until the day we are released from it.</p>
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<p>The next comment will sound harsh, but is only meant to be the truth ... God does not owe us answer. My wife of 40 years had brain cancer last year. The doctors operated and she is still alive, yet I have no promises of another day for her or me in this earthly flesh. My hope is in Him and yet, by His sovereign will and with Him having full knowledge of all things He has chosen to allow your wife to go home and leaving you here for a while longer.</p> Hi Guy Yes its me Don Haines…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-13:1383940:Comment:17396452017-08-13T14:13:38.682ZDonald Haineshttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/Don961
<p>Hi Guy Yes its me Don Haines</p>
<p>How long does it take to get over madness</p>
<p> Yesterday was a very very bad day To be truefulI gryedlike a baby most of the day and thats with all my meds.Does God really know how bad it can get.</p>
<p>All I ccould think of was my wife and why she left and went to heaven. Now all I have to do is hope I can die soon which don't look like it will ever happen</p>
<p>Thank you for being my friend.</p>
<p>Hi Guy Yes its me Don Haines</p>
<p>How long does it take to get over madness</p>
<p> Yesterday was a very very bad day To be truefulI gryedlike a baby most of the day and thats with all my meds.Does God really know how bad it can get.</p>
<p>All I ccould think of was my wife and why she left and went to heaven. Now all I have to do is hope I can die soon which don't look like it will ever happen</p>
<p>Thank you for being my friend.</p> Hi Donald, I know everything…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-13:1383940:Comment:17397152017-08-13T00:50:21.616Zthewatchmanhttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/puritanwatchman
<p>Hi Donald, I know everything you are feeling, I lost my husband about 2 1/2 years ago and am still battling with grief. Please know that the LORD is all you need. I have been there and do know this to be true. You were gifted by the LORD to have had her for 59 years, WHAT A GIFT from God. </p>
<p>You don't need to understand, but God does. The chief end of man is to glorify the LORD. Give Him your life, continue to follow Him. Love Him, give to Him Glory, follow Him, worship Him…</p>
<p>Hi Donald, I know everything you are feeling, I lost my husband about 2 1/2 years ago and am still battling with grief. Please know that the LORD is all you need. I have been there and do know this to be true. You were gifted by the LORD to have had her for 59 years, WHAT A GIFT from God. </p>
<p>You don't need to understand, but God does. The chief end of man is to glorify the LORD. Give Him your life, continue to follow Him. Love Him, give to Him Glory, follow Him, worship Him and that's what this world is about.....it's about Him. </p>
<p>I love you and I understand grief, but we, as people who have lost a loved one need not grieve like those who have no hope. ! Thessalonians 4:13--<span>But I would not </span><b><font size="+1">have</font></b><span> you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even </span><b><font size="+1">as</font></b><span> others which </span><b><font size="+1">have</font></b><span> </span><b><font size="+1">no</font></b><span> </span><b><font size="+1">hope</font></b><span>.</span></p>
<p><span> </span></p> My heart breaks for you broth…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-12:1383940:Comment:17397132017-08-12T23:57:42.909ZTammyhttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/TammyHenson
<p>My heart breaks for you brother & I truly don't have any words for you other than I love you.</p>
<p>My heart breaks for you brother & I truly don't have any words for you other than I love you.</p> Donald,
Yes, Dad passed in 20…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-12:1383940:Comment:17395292017-08-12T23:48:49.114ZAmandahttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/Godinmystorm
Donald,<br />
Yes, Dad passed in 2002, and Mom is still living here on earth, patiently waiting until God calls her home. The time has seemed to pass quickly but at first the grief and longing was very intense. If I could take away the pain you are feeling, I would. I pray God will minister to you in many ways during this time of your greatest need, and I ask Him to give you grace and comfort you and help you carry your heavy sorrow. Mom lives alone and she says she gets very lonely. You're going…
Donald,<br />
Yes, Dad passed in 2002, and Mom is still living here on earth, patiently waiting until God calls her home. The time has seemed to pass quickly but at first the grief and longing was very intense. If I could take away the pain you are feeling, I would. I pray God will minister to you in many ways during this time of your greatest need, and I ask Him to give you grace and comfort you and help you carry your heavy sorrow. Mom lives alone and she says she gets very lonely. You're going through a terrible and overwhelming time. It's OK to talk about it. I care. I want you to know that. I love my god with all my bei…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-12:1383940:Comment:17395282017-08-12T22:35:35.601ZDonald Haineshttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/Don961
<p>I love my god with all my being, I can't read the bible because mt eyes are going Because of grief and the rest of itONE THING Idon;t understand god took my wife at age79 and married for59 yearsNow here i amworried about my wifeeand all I want god to do is take mee home. I have done everything I se out to do so I have nothing to keep me here. Why wont god tAKE ME HOMEGIVE SOMEONE ELSE A CHANCE OF THEIR NAME BEINB CALL</p>
<p>I just don't understand all of this. That why i have neen saying…</p>
<p>I love my god with all my being, I can't read the bible because mt eyes are going Because of grief and the rest of itONE THING Idon;t understand god took my wife at age79 and married for59 yearsNow here i amworried about my wifeeand all I want god to do is take mee home. I have done everything I se out to do so I have nothing to keep me here. Why wont god tAKE ME HOMEGIVE SOMEONE ELSE A CHANCE OF THEIR NAME BEINB CALL</p>
<p>I just don't understand all of this. That why i have neen saying just let die don't mind me I'am just on my soap box</p>
<p>Don Haines</p>
<p></p> HelloAmanda
You know everythi…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-12:1383940:Comment:17396352017-08-12T21:49:36.308ZDonald Haineshttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/Don961
<p>HelloAmanda</p>
<p>You know everything sounds good on paperMy wife just turned 79 and we just made59years of marriage.Then god look her back and left at hume clearing everything out.</p>
<p>If god wanted her so bad and wehave never been apart,what that do to both of usNow all I can do is cry and read the bible.Why didn't he just take both of us.As it stands now he has her in heaven and me a very bitter man It just don't make any senseNow I have to till lord knows when I will be called or how…</p>
<p>HelloAmanda</p>
<p>You know everything sounds good on paperMy wife just turned 79 and we just made59years of marriage.Then god look her back and left at hume clearing everything out.</p>
<p>If god wanted her so bad and wehave never been apart,what that do to both of usNow all I can do is cry and read the bible.Why didn't he just take both of us.As it stands now he has her in heaven and me a very bitter man It just don't make any senseNow I have to till lord knows when I will be called or how many years I will have to wait to see my love.Thank you Don Haines</p> Donald, my mother lost my dad…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-12:1383940:Comment:17395272017-08-12T18:46:55.915ZAmandahttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/Godinmystorm
Donald, my mother lost my dad after 49 years of marriage. She is 84 now and she says she doesn't know why God hasn't called her home to be with her husband and other loved ones who have already died but thinks it must be because God still has a purpose for her to still be here. I believe my loved ones in heaven would tell me the words that are written in Hebrews 12 where the great cloud of witnesses is mentioned. I believe my loved ones who have died are among those people of faith that are…
Donald, my mother lost my dad after 49 years of marriage. She is 84 now and she says she doesn't know why God hasn't called her home to be with her husband and other loved ones who have already died but thinks it must be because God still has a purpose for her to still be here. I believe my loved ones in heaven would tell me the words that are written in Hebrews 12 where the great cloud of witnesses is mentioned. I believe my loved ones who have died are among those people of faith that are mentioned in the previous chapter, Hebrews 11. I believe they would tell us to focus on Jesus and keep fighting the good fight and endure our lives here on earth until God calls us home just the way God called them home, when their time to die came, not by their own hand, but when God called their souls home to heaven.<br />
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“Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:1-2 ESV I see no one can answer my q…tag:www.allaboutgod.net,2017-08-12:1383940:Comment:17394532017-08-12T15:50:23.596ZDonald Haineshttp://www.allaboutgod.net/profile/Don961
<p>I see no one can answer my question yet. All I want to know what does god teach in heaven and why will I honor her by not knowing. I live for my wife every day of my married life..S why can't someone tell me why i should not know what god teaches.As her spouse I think I have a right to know what is being taught to my wife</p>
<p>Don Haines PS I'am not trying to be rude, I just want to know</p>
<p>I see no one can answer my question yet. All I want to know what does god teach in heaven and why will I honor her by not knowing. I live for my wife every day of my married life..S why can't someone tell me why i should not know what god teaches.As her spouse I think I have a right to know what is being taught to my wife</p>
<p>Don Haines PS I'am not trying to be rude, I just want to know</p>