Here's one of our older discussions on this topic: http://www.allaboutgod.net/forum/topics/1383940:Topic:22615
I fought this sort of thing myself. It will be persistently tough. You need to reach out to the world in prayer. The people will either take you or leave you. This worked for me. Ask the people for forgiveness. If you are aware of them or not. It doesn't matter. Listen for them. Let me know how you do or if you have questions.